One thing is for sure — as the cliche says, you only have one chance to make a first impression, so the pressure’s on.Just as you got your head together and wrote a solid dating profile, you’re going to have to compose that all important first email, and even if writing is not your strong suit, we can help you get through it.Flesh out your letter with a few more details about you and your specific “partner”, and you’ll go far in the way of sparking romantic interest.Okay, so here are some example online dating messages that you can use.Responding within a couple of hours of their interest will make you look desperate, even a bit creepy.If you’re responding to another person’s interest, you have a couple of days to think about what you want to say and how to say it.
Of course, balance is the key — don’t wait too long, especially before writing to a new interest.
The first thing you should know about introductions in dating websites is that its a good idea to take a little time to respond to an interested person.
Just like flirting in person, you don’t want to go overboard and “attack” a total stranger with your bone crushingly perfect email introduction.
(insert your own name)Hi (insert name), Came across your profile at (insert dating site name), and I was really happy to read your music interests. Did you know he’s playing a concert nearby next month?
It just so happens I have an extra ticket, and I don’t want to waste it on someone who won’t really enjoy it. Between your pretty face and your perfect skin, I found I had trouble concentrating on my work. Let’s get to know each other before we hit the concert.
Just like being interviewed for a job, you want to show certain important things — yes you want this date, but you must remind the potential date that you have value, that you are worth something and should be considered for a date for other reasons than the bare fact that you “need a date”.