I’m not talking about the woman you’re too scared to talk to.
She has her own friends, hobbies, motivation and passions. To him, I promise to provide the same broad shoulders. The woman you find intimidating wants you and all that you have to offer. They are successful, charismatic, articulate, cultured, hilarious, athletic, compassionate and independent. They crush careers by day and attend dinner parties by night. Sure, we might be a gaggle of intimidation when we take the downtown night by storm, but we are also an SNL skit waiting to be written when we’re together.If there is one phrase I’m tired of men dropping, it’s, “You’re intimidating.”Before I jump up on my soapbox and make myself even more “intimidating,” let me write a disclaimer: This article is not intended for the woman you are too afraid to approach.I can’t fix the mean girl who blows you off at the bar or the not-so-mean girl you just said has “resting bitch face (RBF).” (Also, I’m pretty sure my brain-on-fire-and-therefore-deep-in-thought face does not mean I’m a bitch, so please stop using “RBF”).Her story and character alone take the pressure off of you. Plus, if you’re checking her out, you better believe others are as well. If you’re constantly trying to better yourself and embrace a higher quality of life, keep reading.The person who slightly intimidates you — because you admire her character, work ethic, strength, satire, step, drive, passion, etc.
You will run faster, work harder, inspire more and feel deeper than ever before.